I am still amazed when people love the book

Repeat after me....

Repeat after me….

By Marian Edmunds

A woman stood up at  a function I attended recently and said she had to recommend this great book to everyone. She was talking about Navigational Tips For Living In An Imperfect World (You’re All Right As You Are If Only You Knew It!)  She said she was passing her copy on to friends and family to read and asking them to write in the back “I am all right as I am”.

Then, yesterday at a public event a woman, a new mother,  told me she had loved the book. It had been given to her by her husband as a birthday gift. I asked why she loved it. She said she had received it at just the right moment. She also had a thing about  perfection and this helped her to be  more accepting. Now she has passed the book on to her sister.

Navigational Tips seems to be the kind of book that people wish to share. Here is a review in the UK’s Sunday Times.  I am still amazed when people love the book and yet I know that between Charles Bentley PhD and myself, Marian Edmunds,  a good little book. Do let us know if it works for you.

You can find it with your preferred bookseller here.

The New Years’ relationship resolution that comes first

One of the biggest resolutions of the New Year is to find love again before this time next year.

First love

In making resolutions, as in books, music and the movies, medieval ideals of romance still influence the quest for contemporary relationships. And before you’re eligible to love, or be loved happily ever after, you’re somehow expected to be perfect yourself!

Romantic love is an attachment to projected fantasies based on outdated needs, but real love is different. Real love accepts that our object of desire is a human being and therefore just as fallible and vulnerable as we are.

Navigational Tips For Living In An Imperfect World,
Charles Bentley PhD and Marian Edmunds, 2012.

But first comes the relationship with the self.

There is no challenge, internal or external, that can’t be successfully navigated by someone who has an integrated understanding of, and relationship with, his or her authentic self.

Navigational Tips For Living In An Imperfect World,
Charles Bentley PhD and Marian Edmunds, 2012.

Should we put the relationship with the self on our list of resolutions?
All the best for the New Year, and for a joyful year of discovery in 2013.
We’re all right as we are, if only we knew it!

Our book may be found in print and Kindle on Amazon.com and Amazon UK.

Launching a GPS for life

Here’s where you can find our book. We’ve waited a long time for this but now Navigational Tips For Living In An Imperfect World (We’re all right as we are, if only we knew it!) is widely available. And just in time for Christmas. Tuck it in the Christmas stocking to help resolve festive season arguments. Ever tried a GPS that’s for humans? This is a GPS in a book by Charles Bentley PhD and Marian Edmunds, with drawings by Roger Beale, well-known for his cartoons in the Financial Times.

Stuck on old ideas? Want to revel in being your creative self now?

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Further details at Navigational Tips For Living.

Keep calm and take a life map

Living in the world can be unsettling. There’s a lot to do – figuring out what to do amid economic fluctuations, navigating through emotional minefields and staying on course with the things you really want to do.

Keep calm and carry on reading – I found that message on a bookmark of a holiday novel I am reading. There’s nothing like reading, and being in a story. Each day over the holidays I unfolded a little chair and sat on the beach and read. Utterly engrossed. I looked up occasionally at people frolicking, at the waves that keep coming, all day and all night. One morning I looked up to see riders on brown horses. Behind them was the blue sea with white horses. It was a lovely scene, calm yet lively. I didn’t need to travel to see this. It’s right here, right where I am.

I felt calm when working on the text of Navigational Tips For Living In An Imperfect World (We’re all right as we are, if only we knew it!). 

If some life issue or event or difficult people troubled me during the time of working on this book, I’d turn to the manuscript and work on the text for a while. Soon I would feel calm again. That is one of the  purposes of the book, to set out something of a user-friendly road map to for you to a place of calm.

* Available here in print on Lulu and as e-book on  http://www.amazon.com/Navigational-Living-Imperfect-World-ebook/dp/B007JTG8CY
and http://www.amazon.co.uk/Navigational-Living-Imperfect-World-ebook/dp/B007JTG8CY

New book a GPS for humans

I have everything a person could desire – a beautiful home, a loving family, good friends, and a great career. I should be content with that, shouldn’t I? But the truth is, deep down, I’m not content. What’s wrong with me? 

YOU’RE ALL RIGHT as you are, if only you knew it. If you can let go of your fantasised goals in an uncertain future you will be able to get back in touch with the strength of your true nature. You’ll be able to re-discover your authentic place in the world and your ability to cope with whatever may happen in these rapidly changing and uncertain times
So can I change my persona, like putting on a different disguise, to suit any situation?
NO, NOT EXACTLY. We encounter problems when we’re not aware of the disguises we adopt. it’s like being concealed within an opaque cloak. Nobody on the outside can see the true you, and from the inside, even you are not sure of what you truly are.
If I am stuck in all these feelings and memories of past difficulties, how can I become unstuck?
Well, you could use this information in this book as a map, or a starter tool-kit. All of the problems associated with stress, coping and dependency are due to various levels of unfinished business, which can be classified according to the degree of resistance involved.

Can’t they see all the things I want to hide? Don’t they see that I could lose some weight? that my hair’s not right? Don’t they see my big feet?
Quite possibly. However, those things you see as wrong about you are just a part of you, and probably not seen as wrong by others.

We’re all right as we are, if only we knew it!

Charles Bentley’s Unitive ™ approach to personal development coaching has evolved as a result of his many years experience in the field of human potential.
Marian Edmunds is a writer. She was a staff journalist at the Financial Times for 15 years and her work appears in many major newspapers. Marian is among a distinguished group of contributors to the literary travel anthology City-pick New York.

This new book by Charles Bentley and Marian Edmunds is an essential guide to coping with present-day difficulties. Using Charles Bentley’s unitive approach to personal development coaching, this book is a kind of global positioning system you can use to navigate your own, perfectly valid pathway through an imperfect world.

Navigational Tips For Living In An Imperfect World 

(We’re all right as we are, if only we knew it!

By Charles Bentley PhD & Marian Edmunds
Drawings by Roger Beale
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